For kid stealing someone’s thing – it’s natural. While the parents are in a panic.
How to root the children “criminal tendencies”.
My distant cousin Rita is in trouble. Her eight-year-old son max in school caught stealing. At the break stole from the neighbor’s party, a new pencil case. Baby Mama baby prank turned into deep stress. It was a shame in the eyes of the teacher to watch. And matrix complicated dad, Oleg, even took up the belt.
– He has these canisters – even stationery store open! – in tears complaining cool. – That he, his little?!
Really, I’ve never seen Max in anything needed. Costumes – from good shops, a backpack is the most fashionable. Cool and Oleg his son love and a time to chat with them find. And the thief grows?
Children caught stealing many parents. And often the “grasping hands” of the child lead to a very grown-conflicts – with relatives, classmates, teachers. Simply because for us, adults, to steal means to behave badly, to violate the laws. And for them, children? We talked about this with a family and child psychologist at psychological center “On Volkhonka” Maria Serebryakova.
BLAME NOT THE EDUCATION, AND THE BRAIN
Baby starts stealing another yard in the sandbox. Continue reading
1. Guarantee the unconditional love and acceptance.
Main motto: “WE love you as you are, always!”.
Never put your love to the child depending on his achievements of any kind: good appearance, winning the contest, getting great grades for the control or fives in a quarter!
Your son or daughter must be absolutely sure that your love for him is unconditional and absolute, and that you and all your family would be happy to see him successful, prosperous and popular.
2. Motivate on “achieving success”.
^ The motto: “We all rejoice in your success and progress!”
Repeating his baby, fleshing out exactly who all: all relatives, your friends and co-workers, neighbors, in General, all of whom you will depict his victory. “Imagine how you will admire. “Tanya, Ivan, list buddies child, whose opinion of him significantly. Add that ever after, “when you become an adult and famous, your friends will remember how you lived with you in the same yard, went to the same school.”
3. Exclude motivation “failure avoidance”.
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How to raise a child? How to eliminate his complexes and fears? How to force to obey without damaging his psyche? Books with a similar theme so captivated the market of the countries of the former USSR that each child accounts for about 50 methods of proper upbringing and education of children. And confused parents are left wondering what method of education to choose and which one will be the correct one for their beloved child.
Besides research in the field of pedagogy are constantly changing. And if two or three years ago it was believed that the child already since the year should be taught to read, it is now widely believed that all methods of early development only violate the consistent development of the child and take away his childhood.
It is especially difficult to understand the methods of educating parents who are raising a firstborn. Because the lack of experience in the field of training and education of children generates a lot of errors, leading to unpredictable consequences. That, unfortunately, often happens. Why rush inexperienced Continue reading
Abstraction year-old kid with time become real images: lines, dots, dashes, he goes to the spirals and circles, finally, to three years the object of close attention and study is becoming.
Three year olds often paint people in the form of “bubbles” with the legs, where the head and body United in one oval. To four years the little artist depicts the figures of people more than proportionally: in the form of two ovals with handles and legs like sticks. In figures five-year olds appear head, eyes, torso, arms, legs. In the six years to the above mentioned items are added nose, mouth, fingers – their number does not matter. To seven years of not overlooked such details of human image like neck, hair (or hat), clothing (often in schematic form), and the hands and feet are depicted by double lines.
So, from what positions can analyze a picture of your kid?
The colors that he chooses
The prevalence of any color in pictures can speak not only about the features of character, his temperament, but also about what the child needs, fears and dreams.
Yellow – positive emotions, spontaneity, curiosity, optimism. Children who choose this color – creative nature, are optimists, Continue reading
“SHOULD only child to feel loved and cherished and surrounded by a happy family, as it has become a powerful stimulus for the development of his brain.
The parent task is not to make a child Prodigy, but the fact that their child grew up healthy, sober, and decent,” said Peter Gorski, an employee of the medical faculty of Harvard University.
All parents want their children to become moral, caring and sensitive people. You can achieve this goal if we will try to set a good example, to be a friend, companion and teacher.
Although all children have an innate ability to do good and right, parents still need to constantly instill in them moral values.
Scientists disagree about who most affects the development of the child. According to some, his character is influenced by peers.
However, experts in the field of Pediatrics berry Brazelton and Stanley Greenspan emphasized that the sensitivity and responsiveness in children from an early age parents lay.
Further experience and peer influence are only additions to what is laid down in the child from the beginning.
It is important that the family was shown to the children compassion and understanding. Also it is important to teach them restraint characteristic Continue reading