Raising children can be different, because there are so many different styles of parenting recognized and not quite. Most often we bring up our children in the same spirit in which we were educated in the family parents. When they become parents themselves, and knowing about all the shortcomings in their education, we are like puppets, we repeat the same mistakes on their own children. Look at these most common styles of parenting, you may recognize in this list your family archetype.
You’d think people who were brought up by liberal parents, absolutely happy. Who wouldn’t want to have parents who can’t sleep tonight as long as you wish, and in the morning, on the contrary, to sleep it off before dinner; go to any parties and events without even asking when the baby will come back; they don’t even mind guys stay in your room and never come to your office without knocking. Alas, people who grew up in such families the lucky ones yourself do not. The problem is that children need boundaries, if not to give them guidelines of what is permitted and not permitted, they become overly spoiled and often don’t know at what point should stop. Talking with a friend who grew Continue reading
How to raise a child? How to eliminate his complexes and fears? How to force to obey without damaging his psyche? Books with a similar theme so captivated the market of the countries of the former USSR that each child accounts for about 50 methods of proper upbringing and education of children. And confused parents are left wondering what method of education to choose and which one will be the correct one for their beloved child.
Besides research in the field of pedagogy are constantly changing. And if two or three years ago it was believed that the child already since the year should be taught to read, it is now widely believed that all methods of early development only violate the consistent development of the child and take away his childhood.
It is especially difficult to understand the methods of educating parents who are raising a firstborn. Because the lack of experience in the field of training and education of children generates a lot of errors, leading to unpredictable consequences. That, unfortunately, often happens. Why rush inexperienced Continue reading
“SHOULD only child to feel loved and cherished and surrounded by a happy family, as it has become a powerful stimulus for the development of his brain.
The parent task is not to make a child Prodigy, but the fact that their child grew up healthy, sober, and decent,” said Peter Gorski, an employee of the medical faculty of Harvard University.
All parents want their children to become moral, caring and sensitive people. You can achieve this goal if we will try to set a good example, to be a friend, companion and teacher.
Although all children have an innate ability to do good and right, parents still need to constantly instill in them moral values.
Scientists disagree about who most affects the development of the child. According to some, his character is influenced by peers.
However, experts in the field of Pediatrics berry Brazelton and Stanley Greenspan emphasized that the sensitivity and responsiveness in children from an early age parents lay.
Further experience and peer influence are only additions to what is laid down in the child from the beginning.
It is important that the family was shown to the children compassion and understanding. Also it is important to teach them restraint characteristic Continue reading