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How to love a difficult teenager

 

Parenting teenagers is not an easy task. After all, most of the time they are influenced by other people: teachers, friends and acquaintances, just their peers. Many parents feel that you can no longer control their child’s behavior, to influence him. As a consequence of lack of understanding, conflicts, problems…

But often the reason is parental lack of preparation, lack of understanding of the characteristics of adolescence, and that negates all educational efforts. However, the majority of adolescent problems may be partially or fully resolved, will disappear if the tension in the relations between children and parents.

Undoubtedly, most parents really love their children. And that’s fine, because the need for love is one of the basic human needs. Its satisfaction is a necessary condition for the normal development of the child.

Adolescents are still children who are on the path to adulthood. And their needs is the needs of children. And they also (and maybe more) need to know that they are loved and accepted for who they are, what they are cared for, that someone cares. And although the majority of the time the teenager is under the influence of other people, Continue reading

Conflicts between parents and children

 

From birth, parents protect us, care about health, nutrition and overall development. The years fly imperceptibly, day by day we are becoming more independent. Rarely need the help and support of parents. And now, there are often conflicts. So, how to behave, to communicate with parents?!

“Mom, dad”, says for the first time in my life babe and after seeing illumined by the smile of the parent entity, realizes how much joy he brings to parents and how much they love him. Yes, indeed, like a lot of sense, feelings and emotions inherent in these words! Parents are the most close and native people we will always love and who will love us regardless of time and circumstances.

From birth, parents protect us, care about health, nutrition and overall development, create all conditions for their beloved child. If the child is sad or bored, if someone is hurt, or he fell and hurt him, the first thing to come to the aid of parents who will comfort and soothe baby.

Conflicts in communicating with parents

But as the years go unnoticed. The kid went into the garden, then to school, with each day becoming more Mature and more independent. And most importantly, imperceptibly began to move away from their parents and no longer shares all their Continue reading

What does the figure of the child

Abstraction year-old kid with time become real images: lines, dots, dashes, he goes to the spirals and circles, finally, to three years the object of close attention and study is becoming.

Three year olds often paint people in the form of “bubbles” with the legs, where the head and body United in one oval. To four years the little artist depicts the figures of people more than proportionally: in the form of two ovals with handles and legs like sticks. In figures five-year olds appear head, eyes, torso, arms, legs. In the six years to the above mentioned items are added nose, mouth, fingers – their number does not matter. To seven years of not overlooked such details of human image like neck, hair (or hat), clothing (often in schematic form), and the hands and feet are depicted by double lines.

So, from what positions can analyze a picture of your kid?

The colors that he chooses

The prevalence of any color in pictures can speak not only about the features of character, his temperament, but also about what the child needs, fears and dreams.

Yellow – positive emotions, spontaneity, curiosity, optimism. Children who choose this color – creative nature, are optimists, Continue reading

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A Break in communication with the child
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Styles of child rearing.
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