Raising children can be different, because there are so many different styles of parenting recognized and not quite. Most often we bring up our children in the same spirit in which we were educated in the family parents. When they become parents themselves, and knowing about all the shortcomings in their education, we are like puppets, we repeat the same mistakes on their own children. Look at these most common styles of parenting, you may recognize in this list your family archetype.
You’d think people who were brought up by liberal parents, absolutely happy. Who wouldn’t want to have parents who can’t sleep tonight as long as you wish, and in the morning, on the contrary, to sleep it off before dinner; go to any parties and events without even asking when the baby will come back; they don’t even mind guys stay in your room and never come to your office without knocking. Alas, people who grew up in such families the lucky ones yourself do not. The problem is that children need boundaries, if not to give them guidelines of what is permitted and not permitted, they become overly spoiled and often don’t know at what point should stop. Talking with a friend who grew Continue reading
I can remember the feeling when the test showed 2 cherished stripes: waiting girls I’ve lived my whole pregnancy. Even when the results of the ultrasound confirmed that it will be a boy, I still continued to hope for a girl. Girl, I dreamed of since high school. I’m all about it namatala – appearance, character, smile. I knew how I’d behave, how we spend time, to talk. And here boy! Maksim Sergeevich.
Our first year was not particularly revealing in terms of the education of his son. Maxim wears undershirts and sliders for my cousins. We rang bells and collected pyramids, rolled the balls, folded cubes. In General, doing what I love to do little kids, regardless of gender.
But with 1.5 years in the Maksimkina the area began to appear more and more “masculine” toys – screwdrivers, nuts, hammers, clippers, shovels, swords, tanks, helicopters. And when his grandmother gave him his first Maxim gun in our family began a new era.
Maxim appreciated gift! For a short time his army armament has grown to 2 swords, a huge machine and countless pistols and pistols. Maxim couldn’t say the word “give”, but the word “gun” spoke clearly! Grandma pulled out of mothballs dad’s box iron toy soldiers, Continue reading
Question: Hello! What if the child does not hear the remarks, uttered in a calm tone? And so until then, until the yells and jumps up to it?
Comments, of course, have to make a bunch — this, too, is unclear. After all the comments due to the fact that he pesters year-old sister, takes toys, provokes her improper behavior, such as, for example, to go into a dangerous place or to do what is impossible, pats her on the head — and so all the time they are awake and as soon as mom should take up cooking or your business.
Mother with children at home all day. Deal with them, draw, play, show cartoons. Night with them for an hour playing dad. So not to say that little attention to them.
But as soon as wakes up sister, son (4 years) how honey ugliness attracts! Similarly, in the store, and the people — does not want to hear, requires, vrednichaet and lifts up her sister, although kind and gentle . How to teach him to hear without shouting and considered with your sister and parents?
Hello. Indeed, in many families where there are two or more children with a small age difference, parents are often faced with similar difficulties. Senior bully younger or Vice versa. Children quarrel, jealous, compete with each other. To keep Continue reading