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The two-month child

Two-month-old child is markedly different in its development from a newborn — his behavior more consciously. He is no longer completely dependent on unconditioned reflexes. Now the child uses them to their advantage. His reaction to visual, auditory, and tactile sensations cease to be instinctive, and the behavior is changed in accordance with ambient conditions. During periods of wakefulness two months baby most of the time active and takes an interest in the outside world. He listens to the sounds and examines the room in search of new visual images. When any new object is a child rejoices and holds look at it. With special pleasure the kid sees their own hands and learns to keep them in sight. Parents and the child continue to talk one-on-one, described in the previous Chapter, but the nature of these “dialogues” are changing. To develop and maintain them can still only an adult, but now the child knows how to announce that it is time to pause. Alternately looking at you and looking away to the side, he is able to maintain a “conversation” long enough, not nervous and not overworked. You notice another important change in behavior of the kid — he began to smile more often. As a rule, at the age of three weeks a baby smiles at the sound of that familiar voice, and at the age of four weeks — at the sight of a familiar face. Happy two months baby not only familiar faces, Continue reading

What psychology says about the relationship between children and parents

In psychology, there is such a cornerstone, this symbol of faith, if you will. It can be expressed in one popular phrase: “we All come from childhood”. So. Parents and children, psychology of relationships of children and parents.

What does it mean this expression: “we All come from childhood” It means that the psychology of all areas and schools believes that childhood is the most important time, when the personality is formed. With all its inclinations, and (unfortunately) with all its neuroses and problems of an adult.

Parents are the adults, which is exhausted for the little man the whole universe, a model of the universe. In the early years the child is isolated from most of the experience, however, most of the experience of being he develops on this “model”.

And here’s enforced isolation takes the child for years. As You can probably guess that in early childhood one year is a lifetime. So imagine that years to five to seven a child lives in a special universe where the gods and the most intelligent and fair creatures are his parents. And more around the little man is nothing.

So if a child grows up with the belief “This world is unfair”, then you need to contact him early OPITO parents may have been Continue reading

Difficulties in parenting

I can remember the feeling when the test showed 2 cherished stripes: waiting girls I’ve lived my whole pregnancy. Even when the results of the ultrasound confirmed that it will be a boy, I still continued to hope for a girl. Girl, I dreamed of since high school. I’m all about it namatala – appearance, character, smile. I knew how I’d behave, how we spend time, to talk. And here boy! Maksim Sergeevich.

Our first year was not particularly revealing in terms of the education of his son. Maxim wears undershirts and sliders for my cousins. We rang bells and collected pyramids, rolled the balls, folded cubes. In General, doing what I love to do little kids, regardless of gender.

But with 1.5 years in the Maksimkina the area began to appear more and more “masculine” toys – screwdrivers, nuts, hammers, clippers, shovels, swords, tanks, helicopters. And when his grandmother gave him his first Maxim gun in our family began a new era.

Maxim appreciated gift! For a short time his army armament has grown to 2 swords, a huge machine and countless pistols and pistols. Maxim couldn’t say the word “give”, but the word “gun” spoke clearly! Grandma pulled out of mothballs dad’s box iron toy soldiers, Continue reading

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