How to raise a child? How to eliminate his complexes and fears? How to force to obey without damaging his psyche? Books with a similar theme so captivated the market of the countries of the former USSR that each child accounts for about 50 methods of proper upbringing and education of children. And confused parents are left wondering what method of education to choose and which one will be the correct one for their beloved child.
Besides research in the field of pedagogy are constantly changing. And if two or three years ago it was believed that the child already since the year should be taught to read, it is now widely believed that all methods of early development only violate the consistent development of the child and take away his childhood.
It is especially difficult to understand the methods of educating parents who are raising a firstborn. Because the lack of experience in the field of training and education of children generates a lot of errors, leading to unpredictable consequences. That, unfortunately, often happens. Why rush inexperienced Continue reading
About it in polite society do not speak. Don’t tell over a Cup of coffee, this feeling – or rather, his absence is quickly trying to cover up a polite smile and hide away from prying eyes. “I don’t love my parents” sounds like a confession in a terrible crime.
Why this is so
Once we first take offense to dad and mom. Someone brought up in Spartan conditions, someone took out a daily fatigue, someone suffered from neglect and constant employment of parents. Under-loved, unhappy children, who for years harbored resentment, and then just too tired to fight for parental attention, is one category.
Other – those who had enough of the excessive care and love. Psychologists have many clients who happened to grow up with my mother and grandmother and from experience to experience unbearable heaviness of their love. They dream of escape from the family, but the sense of duty makes to stay. They are constantly taught how to live, what to think, whom to choose as friends. And, barely openevsys, these children run away – first in a student dormitory, then to another city… the country… on another planet. Call out only on holidays and life are already familiar with the cargo dislike mixed with guilt and remorse.
Brutally? Maybe. But honestly. You can suffer Continue reading
The Plenum of the Russian Supreme court prepares special parental decree that children do not become a bargaining chip in the marriage wars.
Sad statistics: according to statistics, last year broke up almost 640 thousand families. Divorce ends more than half of the weddings, not the former spouses always find the strength to stay friends. It is enough to remember star scandals, when famous people divided, and kidnapped children and I had it out almost live.
But the star of the “war” is just the tip of the iceberg. How many unknown little tragedies happening across the country, none of the statistics will not tell.
However, according to the Chairman of the Supreme court of Russia Vyacheslav Lebedev, last year the number of legal disputes on divorce declined slightly. However, according to many analysts, in General, we haven’t learned a civilized manner to disperse. The more important that judges have always been able competently to divorcing couples.
According to Vyacheslav Lebedev, the Plenum of the Supreme court will consider the judicial practice and will prepare recommendations for the consideration of such disputes. A higher court will explain in detail Continue reading