About it in polite society do not speak. Don’t tell over a Cup of coffee, this feeling – or rather, his absence is quickly trying to cover up a polite smile and hide away from prying eyes. “I don’t love my parents” sounds like a confession in a terrible crime.
Why this is so
Once we first take offense to dad and mom. Someone brought up in Spartan conditions, someone took out a daily fatigue, someone suffered from neglect and constant employment of parents. Under-loved, unhappy children, who for years harbored resentment, and then just too tired to fight for parental attention, is one category.
Other – those who had enough of the excessive care and love. Psychologists have many clients who happened to grow up with my mother and grandmother and from experience to experience unbearable heaviness of their love. They dream of escape from the family, but the sense of duty makes to stay. They are constantly taught how to live, what to think, whom to choose as friends. And, barely openevsys, these children run away – first in a student dormitory, then to another city… the country… on another planet. Call out only on holidays and life are already familiar with the cargo dislike mixed with guilt and remorse.
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The Plenum of the Russian Supreme court prepares special parental decree that children do not become a bargaining chip in the marriage wars.
Sad statistics: according to statistics, last year broke up almost 640 thousand families. Divorce ends more than half of the weddings, not the former spouses always find the strength to stay friends. It is enough to remember star scandals, when famous people divided, and kidnapped children and I had it out almost live.
But the star of the “war” is just the tip of the iceberg. How many unknown little tragedies happening across the country, none of the statistics will not tell.
However, according to the Chairman of the Supreme court of Russia Vyacheslav Lebedev, last year the number of legal disputes on divorce declined slightly. However, according to many analysts, in General, we haven’t learned a civilized manner to disperse. The more important that judges have always been able competently to divorcing couples.
According to Vyacheslav Lebedev, the Plenum of the Supreme court will consider the judicial practice and will prepare recommendations for the consideration of such disputes. A higher court will explain in detail Continue reading
Being born into the light, a child is not able to perceive the interaction of events and things, just as adults do. Thinking of the little man at such a tender age is in its infancy.Gradually learning the world,the child learns to perceive and to feel separate phenomena and objects,and their images are fixed in the mind.Forming the foundations of a culture of thinking must begin in the first months since the birth of the baby.So,for example, 7-month old baby can pull up to a coveted rattle of garland above his crib,using the ribbon hanging out.Change the layout of rattles and the length of the ribbons,so the baby was developing and he was interesting.When the baby is able to stand in the crib,arrange for him an entertaining educational game . attach one end of the ribbon 3-4 different toys (a ringing bell,a rubber squeaky toy,a loud rattle),and another tie to the bars of the crib.The kid with pleasure will start to experiment,throwing toys on the floor and listening,the sound will publish one or another fallen toy.And with the help of ribbons will try to get all the toys back,thereby using it as a means to an end.
Important role in shaping the thinking of the child is the development of speech .Constantly communicating with others,the Continue reading