Parenting teenagers is not an easy task. After all, most of the time they are influenced by other people: teachers, friends and acquaintances, just their peers. Many parents feel that you can no longer control their child’s behavior, to influence him. As a consequence of lack of understanding, conflicts, problems…
But often the reason is parental lack of preparation, lack of understanding of the characteristics of adolescence, and that negates all educational efforts. However, the majority of adolescent problems may be partially or fully resolved, will disappear if the tension in the relations between children and parents.
Undoubtedly, most parents really love their children. And that’s fine, because the need for love is one of the basic human needs. Its satisfaction is a necessary condition for the normal development of the child.
Adolescents are still children who are on the path to adulthood. And their needs is the needs of children. And they also (and maybe more) need to know that they are loved and accepted for who they are, what they are cared for, that someone cares. And although the majority of the time the teenager is under the influence of other people, Continue reading
Parents notice the tendency of children to lie very early, almost from the moment the child begins to speak.
Young children often harmless lie, an exaggeration, an easy boasting, or simply making up. Those things parents often don’t pay attention. And rightly so. You’re not annoying fairy tales or science fiction movies. All the world’s books written by great “liars”.
As for imagination, a child can even support in these endeavors, dream up together. Children’s imaginations develop imagination, sense of humor, and abstract thinking – the qualities in adult life a person can simply disappear. Keep faith in fairies and Santa Claus. If the child does not believe in good wizards, as an adult, he does not believe that the earth has a conscience and decency
Baby brag too need to communicate with their peers.
– Well, that remains to do for the child, if all peers start around the eternal game on the theme of “And we have in the apartment gas, and you?”. Willy-nilly, or FIB, or look in the eyes of peers “black sheep”.
Children 2-3 years of age tends to believe what they want.
The child may believe that he came up with. Sometimes, the child Continue reading
Raising children can be different, because there are so many different styles of parenting recognized and not quite. Most often we bring up our children in the same spirit in which we were educated in the family parents. When they become parents themselves, and knowing about all the shortcomings in their education, we are like puppets, we repeat the same mistakes on their own children. Look at these most common styles of parenting, you may recognize in this list your family archetype.
You’d think people who were brought up by liberal parents, absolutely happy. Who wouldn’t want to have parents who can’t sleep tonight as long as you wish, and in the morning, on the contrary, to sleep it off before dinner; go to any parties and events without even asking when the baby will come back; they don’t even mind guys stay in your room and never come to your office without knocking. Alas, people who grew up in such families the lucky ones yourself do not. The problem is that children need boundaries, if not to give them guidelines of what is permitted and not permitted, they become overly spoiled and often don’t know at what point should stop. Talking with a friend who grew Continue reading