Family, awaiting the birth of a child, often called the “pregnant couple”. The birth of a healthy and smart baby – care not only moms, but also dads. The relationship between the intended parents in this period is as important as the relationship of a mother to her child. How a man loves a woman, expresses the relation in detail, how to take care of her during this period, which improves their self – esteem and self-esteem of women, improves mood and health, but also has a positive effect on the child.
The man the news that he will soon become a father, is at first ambivalent feeling. On the one hand, he’s glad he gave life to a new creature, the other is afraid of the new role. He is concerned that changes a life and there is fear of losing freedom. Sometimes makes itself felt masculine “sense of ownership” of this, his wife will no longer belong to him alone. Often, not even admitting to himself, man sees in the future the child as a rival, and therefore experiences a feeling of separation. Another fear is the fear of old age. For some men, the birth of a child means parting with adolescence and the transition to a different state to them very painful. Everything else the man is afraid that Continue reading
I can remember the feeling when the test showed 2 cherished stripes: waiting girls I’ve lived my whole pregnancy. Even when the results of the ultrasound confirmed that it will be a boy, I still continued to hope for a girl. Girl, I dreamed of since high school. I’m all about it namatala – appearance, character, smile. I knew how I’d behave, how we spend time, to talk. And here boy! Maksim Sergeevich.
Our first year was not particularly revealing in terms of the education of his son. Maxim wears undershirts and sliders for my cousins. We rang bells and collected pyramids, rolled the balls, folded cubes. In General, doing what I love to do little kids, regardless of gender.
But with 1.5 years in the Maksimkina the area began to appear more and more “masculine” toys – screwdrivers, nuts, hammers, clippers, shovels, swords, tanks, helicopters. And when his grandmother gave him his first Maxim gun in our family began a new era.
Maxim appreciated gift! For a short time his army armament has grown to 2 swords, a huge machine and countless pistols and pistols. Maxim couldn’t say the word “give”, but the word “gun” spoke clearly! Grandma pulled out of mothballs dad’s box iron toy soldiers, Continue reading
Unfortunately, the school did not learn how to raise children. Meanwhile, as soon as the family has a child, the newly minted moms and dads immediately raises a million questions. And the older the child becomes, the more questions from parents. Someone prefers himself to find answers, and someone listens to the advice of psychologists, buy specialized books and magazines.
Conscious parents of today it is difficult to Orient in a huge selection of benefits for the upbringing and development of the child. “Most” decided to come to the rescue and picked five books that are definitely worth reading every mother.
1) “to Communicate with the child. How?” Julia Gippenreiter
Famous benefit of this child psychologist was first published 15 years ago, and since then it remains a bestseller. At the request of readers in 2008 was the second book – “we Continue to communicate with the child. So?”.
Simultaneously first drew the attention of Russian parents on what they say with their children. She’s not accusing, just shows how really perceived by our habitual words. And when you start to see yourself from the side, ashamed. “Look, look at you!”, “Now for the lessons, and that I have not seen!”, “Oh you didn’t!”, “Don’t be a nurse”, “Think about it, is that a problem!”, – it turns Continue reading