Family, awaiting the birth of a child, often called the “pregnant couple”. The birth of a healthy and smart baby – care not only moms, but also dads. The relationship between the intended parents in this period is as important as the relationship of a mother to her child. How a man loves a woman, expresses the relation in detail, how to take care of her during this period, which improves their self – esteem and self-esteem of women, improves mood and health, but also has a positive effect on the child.
The man the news that he will soon become a father, is at first ambivalent feeling. On the one hand, he’s glad he gave life to a new creature, the other is afraid of the new role. He is concerned that changes a life and there is fear of losing freedom. Sometimes makes itself felt masculine “sense of ownership” of this, his wife will no longer belong to him alone. Often, not even admitting to himself, man sees in the future the child as a rival, and therefore experiences a feeling of separation. Another fear is the fear of old age. For some men, the birth of a child means parting with adolescence and the transition to a different state to them very painful. Everything else the man is afraid that Continue reading
Two-month-old child is markedly different in its development from a newborn — his behavior more consciously. He is no longer completely dependent on unconditioned reflexes. Now the child uses them to their advantage. His reaction to visual, auditory, and tactile sensations cease to be instinctive, and the behavior is changed in accordance with ambient conditions. During periods of wakefulness two months baby most of the time active and takes an interest in the outside world. He listens to the sounds and examines the room in search of new visual images. When any new object is a child rejoices and holds look at it. With special pleasure the kid sees their own hands and learns to keep them in sight. Parents and the child continue to talk one-on-one, described in the previous Chapter, but the nature of these “dialogues” are changing. To develop and maintain them can still only an adult, but now the child knows how to announce that it is time to pause. Alternately looking at you and looking away to the side, he is able to maintain a “conversation” long enough, not nervous and not overworked. You notice another important change in behavior of the kid — he began to smile more often. As a rule, at the age of three weeks a baby smiles at the sound of that familiar voice, and at the age of four weeks — at the sight of a familiar face. Happy two months baby not only familiar faces, Continue reading
How noisy, unruly, ill-mannered children we notice around you! And what gross mistakes of their mothers – do not make comments on time, ignore the cries, or, conversely, absolutely do not keep yourself in hand, showing monstrous pedagogical failure. All this is true even before that time, while in our family got their little miracle. And here comes an unpleasant discovery – adults feel helpless before the whims and tantrums, and people often see a twisted face the wrath of the mother, not quite knowing how to raise a child.
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Why thousands of wise advice, which seemed so simple and effective, in practice, are not good? How it is that seeing the flaws of others and feeling sorry for kids that moms and dads can’t learn to negotiate, we ourselves fall into the same trap of becoming a parent?
Nurtured from the cradle?
Tiny three-kilogram bag in the elegant envelope with a first hours of life changes all our previous setup, and weak hands firmly grasp the reins, immediately explaining to others, who is in charge now. At this stage many make the mistake of trying to restore the status quo. Kid grumbled, not wanting to leave the mother hand, does not want to sleep, Continue reading