Raising children can be different, because there are so many different styles of parenting recognized and not quite. Most often we bring up our children in the same spirit in which we were educated in the family parents. When they become parents themselves, and knowing about all the shortcomings in their education, we are like puppets, we repeat the same mistakes on their own children. Look at these most common styles of parenting, you may recognize in this list your family archetype.
You’d think people who were brought up by liberal parents, absolutely happy. Who wouldn’t want to have parents who can’t sleep tonight as long as you wish, and in the morning, on the contrary, to sleep it off before dinner; go to any parties and events without even asking when the baby will come back; they don’t even mind guys stay in your room and never come to your office without knocking. Alas, people who grew up in such families the lucky ones yourself do not. The problem is that children need boundaries, if not to give them guidelines of what is permitted and not permitted, they become overly spoiled and often don’t know at what point should stop. Talking with a friend who grew Continue reading
From birth, parents protect us, care about health, nutrition and overall development. The years fly imperceptibly, day by day we are becoming more independent. Rarely need the help and support of parents. And now, there are often conflicts. So, how to behave, to communicate with parents?!
“Mom, dad”, says for the first time in my life babe and after seeing illumined by the smile of the parent entity, realizes how much joy he brings to parents and how much they love him. Yes, indeed, like a lot of sense, feelings and emotions inherent in these words! Parents are the most close and native people we will always love and who will love us regardless of time and circumstances.
From birth, parents protect us, care about health, nutrition and overall development, create all conditions for their beloved child. If the child is sad or bored, if someone is hurt, or he fell and hurt him, the first thing to come to the aid of parents who will comfort and soothe baby.
Conflicts in communicating with parents
But as the years go unnoticed. The kid went into the garden, then to school, with each day becoming more Mature and more independent. And most importantly, imperceptibly began to move away from their parents and no longer shares all their Continue reading
For kid stealing someone’s thing – it’s natural. While the parents are in a panic.
How to root the children “criminal tendencies”.
My distant cousin Rita is in trouble. Her eight-year-old son max in school caught stealing. At the break stole from the neighbor’s party, a new pencil case. Baby Mama baby prank turned into deep stress. It was a shame in the eyes of the teacher to watch. And matrix complicated dad, Oleg, even took up the belt.
– He has these canisters – even stationery store open! – in tears complaining cool. – That he, his little?!
Really, I’ve never seen Max in anything needed. Costumes – from good shops, a backpack is the most fashionable. Cool and Oleg his son love and a time to chat with them find. And the thief grows?
Children caught stealing many parents. And often the “grasping hands” of the child lead to a very grown-conflicts – with relatives, classmates, teachers. Simply because for us, adults, to steal means to behave badly, to violate the laws. And for them, children? We talked about this with a family and child psychologist at psychological center “On Volkhonka” Maria Serebryakova.
BLAME NOT THE EDUCATION, AND THE BRAIN
Baby starts stealing another yard in the sandbox. Continue reading