Raising children can be different, because there are so many different styles of parenting recognized and not quite. Most often we bring up our children in the same spirit in which we were educated in the family parents. When they become parents themselves, and knowing about all the shortcomings in their education, we are like puppets, we repeat the same mistakes on their own children. Look at these most common styles of parenting, you may recognize in this list your family archetype.
You’d think people who were brought up by liberal parents, absolutely happy. Who wouldn’t want to have parents who can’t sleep tonight as long as you wish, and in the morning, on the contrary, to sleep it off before dinner; go to any parties and events without even asking when the baby will come back; they don’t even mind guys stay in your room and never come to your office without knocking. Alas, people who grew up in such families the lucky ones yourself do not. The problem is that children need boundaries, if not to give them guidelines of what is permitted and not permitted, they become overly spoiled and often don’t know at what point should stop. Talking with a friend who grew Continue reading
Family, awaiting the birth of a child, often called the “pregnant couple”. The birth of a healthy and smart baby – care not only moms, but also dads. The relationship between the intended parents in this period is as important as the relationship of a mother to her child. How a man loves a woman, expresses the relation in detail, how to take care of her during this period, which improves their self – esteem and self-esteem of women, improves mood and health, but also has a positive effect on the child.
The man the news that he will soon become a father, is at first ambivalent feeling. On the one hand, he’s glad he gave life to a new creature, the other is afraid of the new role. He is concerned that changes a life and there is fear of losing freedom. Sometimes makes itself felt masculine “sense of ownership” of this, his wife will no longer belong to him alone. Often, not even admitting to himself, man sees in the future the child as a rival, and therefore experiences a feeling of separation. Another fear is the fear of old age. For some men, the birth of a child means parting with adolescence and the transition to a different state to them very painful. Everything else the man is afraid that Continue reading
From birth, parents protect us, care about health, nutrition and overall development. The years fly imperceptibly, day by day we are becoming more independent. Rarely need the help and support of parents. And now, there are often conflicts. So, how to behave, to communicate with parents?!
“Mom, dad”, says for the first time in my life babe and after seeing illumined by the smile of the parent entity, realizes how much joy he brings to parents and how much they love him. Yes, indeed, like a lot of sense, feelings and emotions inherent in these words! Parents are the most close and native people we will always love and who will love us regardless of time and circumstances.
From birth, parents protect us, care about health, nutrition and overall development, create all conditions for their beloved child. If the child is sad or bored, if someone is hurt, or he fell and hurt him, the first thing to come to the aid of parents who will comfort and soothe baby.
Conflicts in communicating with parents
But as the years go unnoticed. The kid went into the garden, then to school, with each day becoming more Mature and more independent. And most importantly, imperceptibly began to move away from their parents and no longer shares all their Continue reading