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What does the figure of the child

Abstraction year-old kid with time become real images: lines, dots, dashes, he goes to the spirals and circles, finally, to three years the object of close attention and study is becoming.

Three year olds often paint people in the form of “bubbles” with the legs, where the head and body United in one oval. To four years the little artist depicts the figures of people more than proportionally: in the form of two ovals with handles and legs like sticks. In figures five-year olds appear head, eyes, torso, arms, legs. In the six years to the above mentioned items are added nose, mouth, fingers – their number does not matter. To seven years of not overlooked such details of human image like neck, hair (or hat), clothing (often in schematic form), and the hands and feet are depicted by double lines.

So, from what positions can analyze a picture of your kid?

The colors that he chooses

The prevalence of any color in pictures can speak not only about the features of character, his temperament, but also about what the child needs, fears and dreams.

Yellow – positive emotions, spontaneity, curiosity, optimism. Children who choose this color – creative nature, are optimists, Continue reading

Do we have an Obligation to love their parents

 

About it in polite society do not speak. Don’t tell over a Cup of coffee, this feeling – or rather, his absence is quickly trying to cover up a polite smile and hide away from prying eyes. “I don’t love my parents” sounds like a confession in a terrible crime.

Why this is so

Once we first take offense to dad and mom. Someone brought up in Spartan conditions, someone took out a daily fatigue, someone suffered from neglect and constant employment of parents. Under-loved, unhappy children, who for years harbored resentment, and then just too tired to fight for parental attention, is one category.

Other – those who had enough of the excessive care and love. Psychologists have many clients who happened to grow up with my mother and grandmother and from experience to experience unbearable heaviness of their love. They dream of escape from the family, but the sense of duty makes to stay. They are constantly taught how to live, what to think, whom to choose as friends. And, barely openevsys, these children run away – first in a student dormitory, then to another city… the country… on another planet. Call out only on holidays and life are already familiar with the cargo dislike mixed with guilt and remorse.

Brutally? Maybe. But honestly. You can suffer Continue reading

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