About it in polite society do not speak. Don’t tell over a Cup of coffee, this feeling – or rather, his absence is quickly trying to cover up a polite smile and hide away from prying eyes. “I don’t love my parents” sounds like a confession in a terrible crime.
Why this is so
Once we first take offense to dad and mom. Someone brought up in Spartan conditions, someone took out a daily fatigue, someone suffered from neglect and constant employment of parents. Under-loved, unhappy children, who for years harbored resentment, and then just too tired to fight for parental attention, is one category.
Other – those who had enough of the excessive care and love. Psychologists have many clients who happened to grow up with my mother and grandmother and from experience to experience unbearable heaviness of their love. They dream of escape from the family, but the sense of duty makes to stay. They are constantly taught how to live, what to think, whom to choose as friends. And, barely openevsys, these children run away – first in a student dormitory, then to another city… the country… on another planet. Call out only on holidays and life are already familiar with the cargo dislike mixed with guilt and remorse.
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According to the beliefs of some occultists, the souls of the dead are constantly watching the lives of their loved ones. The invisible entity in the course of family problems, you know about the plans and Rodney even read minds. But especially interested in love Affairs…
Soul conjugal bed
Recently deceased American occultist and clairvoyant D. Gabrilovich believed that the bed of the lovers during the time of conception are returning souls of the deceased relatives, and they decide which will be the soul of the child.
Around that same religious teachings say some of the people of Polynesia and Indochina. In particular, in Polynesia believe that only from deceased family members depends, will lead this marital closeness to the birth of an heir or not. Therefore, the couples try to appease the souls of the ancestors of the various offerings which are laid out next to his bed.
The birth of a child is not just the fusion of male and female cells, but also for assimilation of the soul in a new body. During intercourse opens a channel through which the soul or an invisible ethereal essence, is a fetus Continue reading
Unfortunately, the school did not learn how to raise children. Meanwhile, as soon as the family has a child, the newly minted moms and dads immediately raises a million questions. And the older the child becomes, the more questions from parents. Someone prefers himself to find answers, and someone listens to the advice of psychologists, buy specialized books and magazines.
Conscious parents of today it is difficult to Orient in a huge selection of benefits for the upbringing and development of the child. “Most” decided to come to the rescue and picked five books that are definitely worth reading every mother.
1) “to Communicate with the child. How?” Julia Gippenreiter
Famous benefit of this child psychologist was first published 15 years ago, and since then it remains a bestseller. At the request of readers in 2008 was the second book – “we Continue to communicate with the child. So?”.
Simultaneously first drew the attention of Russian parents on what they say with their children. She’s not accusing, just shows how really perceived by our habitual words. And when you start to see yourself from the side, ashamed. “Look, look at you!”, “Now for the lessons, and that I have not seen!”, “Oh you didn’t!”, “Don’t be a nurse”, “Think about it, is that a problem!”, – it turns Continue reading