Family, awaiting the birth of a child, often called the “pregnant couple”. The birth of a healthy and smart baby – care not only moms, but also dads. The relationship between the intended parents in this period is as important as the relationship of a mother to her child. How a man loves a woman, expresses the relation in detail, how to take care of her during this period, which improves their self – esteem and self-esteem of women, improves mood and health, but also has a positive effect on the child.
The man the news that he will soon become a father, is at first ambivalent feeling. On the one hand, he’s glad he gave life to a new creature, the other is afraid of the new role. He is concerned that changes a life and there is fear of losing freedom. Sometimes makes itself felt masculine “sense of ownership” of this, his wife will no longer belong to him alone. Often, not even admitting to himself, man sees in the future the child as a rival, and therefore experiences a feeling of separation. Another fear is the fear of old age. For some men, the birth of a child means parting with adolescence and the transition to a different state to them very painful. Everything else the man is afraid that Continue reading
Cause baby’s crying may be completely different and inexperienced parents can be very difficult to understand your baby, especially in the early months – two. But, the main thing is not to worry, with time You will learn to identify what exactly is bothering the child.
Newborn won’t go quietly crying and wipe the tears, quite naturally, that almost always cry will be loud and persistent. The main thing that You have learned to determine what is within normal limits, and when it’s required to show the child’s specialist.
Be prepared that very often have to sort out the reasons for crying, plus could be that there are several reasons.
Let’s look at the major causes of crying and necessary action from Your side:
1. Hunger and thirst – is the most common causes of cry of a newborn. Don’t panic, just offer to eat or drink (if You already topiwale). Typically, the perturbation is accompanied by a search of the breast and sucking movements.
2. Crying at bedtime. The child is tired and wants to sleep or not enough sleep, or Vice versa does not want to sleep, and You’re trying to stack. Try to notice the signs of fatigue (tiny yawns, rubs his eyes and closes them). Swing on the handles, sing a song or just Continue reading
Primers are now so many that can get lost. In each school a primer . in addition there are alternative, auxiliary, alphabet books for preschoolers . Yes and many other varieties, too many to mention. Many parents who put their effort preparing the child to school are faced with challenges about what primer to use . This is not surprising, especially when your baby is crying and can’t understand how to associate the letter with the picture, and what does the “watermelon”, or “Hippo”. I must say that the current methods of teaching reading, though, and probably all others, not take into account the psychology of the student and the fact that in the mind of the child there is simply no such associative relationships that the picture, sound and letter into one . The child is a whole being . in him there is no distinction between tactile, auditory, visual, and so on. In fact, school technique produces a devastating effect on the child, separating, granulating the unity of consciousness in favor of learning Continue reading