Parents notice the tendency of children to lie very early, almost from the moment the child begins to speak.
Young children often harmless lie, an exaggeration, an easy boasting, or simply making up. Those things parents often don’t pay attention. And rightly so. You’re not annoying fairy tales or science fiction movies. All the world’s books written by great “liars”.
As for imagination, a child can even support in these endeavors, dream up together. Children’s imaginations develop imagination, sense of humor, and abstract thinking – the qualities in adult life a person can simply disappear. Keep faith in fairies and Santa Claus. If the child does not believe in good wizards, as an adult, he does not believe that the earth has a conscience and decency
Baby brag too need to communicate with their peers.
– Well, that remains to do for the child, if all peers start around the eternal game on the theme of “And we have in the apartment gas, and you?”. Willy-nilly, or FIB, or look in the eyes of peers “black sheep”.
Children 2-3 years of age tends to believe what they want.
The child may believe that he came up with. Sometimes, the child Continue reading
How to raise a child? How to eliminate his complexes and fears? How to force to obey without damaging his psyche? Books with a similar theme so captivated the market of the countries of the former USSR that each child accounts for about 50 methods of proper upbringing and education of children. And confused parents are left wondering what method of education to choose and which one will be the correct one for their beloved child.
Besides research in the field of pedagogy are constantly changing. And if two or three years ago it was believed that the child already since the year should be taught to read, it is now widely believed that all methods of early development only violate the consistent development of the child and take away his childhood.
It is especially difficult to understand the methods of educating parents who are raising a firstborn. Because the lack of experience in the field of training and education of children generates a lot of errors, leading to unpredictable consequences. That, unfortunately, often happens. Why rush inexperienced Continue reading
About it in polite society do not speak. Don’t tell over a Cup of coffee, this feeling – or rather, his absence is quickly trying to cover up a polite smile and hide away from prying eyes. “I don’t love my parents” sounds like a confession in a terrible crime.
Why this is so
Once we first take offense to dad and mom. Someone brought up in Spartan conditions, someone took out a daily fatigue, someone suffered from neglect and constant employment of parents. Under-loved, unhappy children, who for years harbored resentment, and then just too tired to fight for parental attention, is one category.
Other – those who had enough of the excessive care and love. Psychologists have many clients who happened to grow up with my mother and grandmother and from experience to experience unbearable heaviness of their love. They dream of escape from the family, but the sense of duty makes to stay. They are constantly taught how to live, what to think, whom to choose as friends. And, barely openevsys, these children run away – first in a student dormitory, then to another city… the country… on another planet. Call out only on holidays and life are already familiar with the cargo dislike mixed with guilt and remorse.
Brutally? Maybe. But honestly. You can suffer Continue reading