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What psychology says about the relationship between children and parents

In psychology, there is such a cornerstone, this symbol of faith, if you will. It can be expressed in one popular phrase: “we All come from childhood”. So. Parents and children, psychology of relationships of children and parents.

What does it mean this expression: “we All come from childhood” It means that the psychology of all areas and schools believes that childhood is the most important time, when the personality is formed. With all its inclinations, and (unfortunately) with all its neuroses and problems of an adult.

Parents are the adults, which is exhausted for the little man the whole universe, a model of the universe. In the early years the child is isolated from most of the experience, however, most of the experience of being he develops on this “model”.

And here’s enforced isolation takes the child for years. As You can probably guess that in early childhood one year is a lifetime. So imagine that years to five to seven a child lives in a special universe where the gods and the most intelligent and fair creatures are his parents. And more around the little man is nothing.

So if a child grows up with the belief “This world is unfair”, then you need to contact him early OPITO parents may have been Continue reading

CONFLICT BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN

Lifestyle. The most common causes of friction are disputes on the following issues:

• the choice of friends and partners;

• partying, dance halls, discotheques, bars, etc.;

• the nature of the pastime and idleness;

• coming home and going to bed;

• choice of clothing or hairstyle.

Usually parents complain that teenagers are never home and spend all of their time outside the family. They are trying to strictly regulate the time of your home, and even the distance that they can move away from home.

Responsibility. Almost always parents criticize teenagers but that they did not show enough responsibility. The requirement of this kind concerns the following issues:

• performing chores around the house;

• earning and spending money;

• respect for the personal belongings, clothing, housing;

• use of the telephone;

• work outside the home;

• use of the family property and belongings: furniture, Continue reading

Difficulties in parenting

I can remember the feeling when the test showed 2 cherished stripes: waiting girls I’ve lived my whole pregnancy. Even when the results of the ultrasound confirmed that it will be a boy, I still continued to hope for a girl. Girl, I dreamed of since high school. I’m all about it namatala – appearance, character, smile. I knew how I’d behave, how we spend time, to talk. And here boy! Maksim Sergeevich.

Our first year was not particularly revealing in terms of the education of his son. Maxim wears undershirts and sliders for my cousins. We rang bells and collected pyramids, rolled the balls, folded cubes. In General, doing what I love to do little kids, regardless of gender.

But with 1.5 years in the Maksimkina the area began to appear more and more “masculine” toys – screwdrivers, nuts, hammers, clippers, shovels, swords, tanks, helicopters. And when his grandmother gave him his first Maxim gun in our family began a new era.

Maxim appreciated gift! For a short time his army armament has grown to 2 swords, a huge machine and countless pistols and pistols. Maxim couldn’t say the word “give”, but the word “gun” spoke clearly! Grandma pulled out of mothballs dad’s box iron toy soldiers, Continue reading

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What psychology says about the relationship between children and parents
In psychology, there is such a cornerstone, this symbol of faith, if you will. It can be expressed in one popular phrase: “we All come from childhood". So. Parents and…

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