Unfortunately, the school did not learn how to raise children. Meanwhile, as soon as the family has a child, the newly minted moms and dads immediately raises a million questions. And the older the child becomes, the more questions from parents. Someone prefers himself to find answers, and someone listens to the advice of psychologists, buy specialized books and magazines.
Conscious parents of today it is difficult to Orient in a huge selection of benefits for the upbringing and development of the child. “Most” decided to come to the rescue and picked five books that are definitely worth reading every mother.
1) “to Communicate with the child. How?” Julia Gippenreiter
Famous benefit of this child psychologist was first published 15 years ago, and since then it remains a bestseller. At the request of readers in 2008 was the second book – “we Continue to communicate with the child. So?”.
Simultaneously first drew the attention of Russian parents on what they say with their children. She’s not accusing, just shows how really perceived by our habitual words. And when you start to see yourself from the side, ashamed. “Look, look at you!”, “Now for the lessons, and that I have not seen!”, “Oh you didn’t!”, “Don’t be a nurse”, “Think about it, is that a problem!”, – it turns Continue reading
The Plenum of the Russian Supreme court prepares special parental decree that children do not become a bargaining chip in the marriage wars.
Sad statistics: according to statistics, last year broke up almost 640 thousand families. Divorce ends more than half of the weddings, not the former spouses always find the strength to stay friends. It is enough to remember star scandals, when famous people divided, and kidnapped children and I had it out almost live.
But the star of the “war” is just the tip of the iceberg. How many unknown little tragedies happening across the country, none of the statistics will not tell.
However, according to the Chairman of the Supreme court of Russia Vyacheslav Lebedev, last year the number of legal disputes on divorce declined slightly. However, according to many analysts, in General, we haven’t learned a civilized manner to disperse. The more important that judges have always been able competently to divorcing couples.
According to Vyacheslav Lebedev, the Plenum of the Supreme court will consider the judicial practice and will prepare recommendations for the consideration of such disputes. A higher court will explain in detail Continue reading
“Our son is 4 years old. It pleases us because growing smart and healthy child. And all would have been perfect, if not one “but”. This problem is becoming a tradition, and we are afraid that it will not be able to fix it. It begins with the fact that I or the husband ask Mitya put away your toys. Obedient and cute baby immediately turns into a blubbering capricious. He hides away from us and categorically does not agree to restore order in the room. No amount of persuasion’t help – the child continues to cry or take away toys.
Of course, after this “view” that the mood is spoiled the whole family. The feeling that my husband – two tyrants, forcing the child to work the mines and of course, feel very badly, forcing his son to do what he wants. But other than that, we worry that Mitya not learn to watch your belongings and keep them in order. And though we always talk with his son about responsibility for their belongings, but despite this, almost every evening we are confronted with the same pattern: the child in tears, and the toys scattered throughout the room. Even when dad threatened to throw all the toys, if the son don’t take them – it still does not help Continue reading