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What psychology says about the relationship between children and parents

In psychology, there is such a cornerstone, this symbol of faith, if you will. It can be expressed in one popular phrase: “we All come from childhood”. So. Parents and children, psychology of relationships of children and parents.

What does it mean this expression: “we All come from childhood” It means that the psychology of all areas and schools believes that childhood is the most important time, when the personality is formed. With all its inclinations, and (unfortunately) with all its neuroses and problems of an adult.

Parents are the adults, which is exhausted for the little man the whole universe, a model of the universe. In the early years the child is isolated from most of the experience, however, most of the experience of being he develops on this “model”.

And here’s enforced isolation takes the child for years. As You can probably guess that in early childhood one year is a lifetime. So imagine that years to five to seven a child lives in a special universe where the gods and the most intelligent and fair creatures are his parents. And more around the little man is nothing.

So if a child grows up with the belief “This world is unfair”, then you need to contact him early OPITO parents may have been Continue reading

The Souls of the dead are constantly watching the lives of their loved ones

According to the beliefs of some occultists, the souls of the dead are constantly watching the lives of their loved ones. The invisible entity in the course of family problems, you know about the plans and Rodney even read minds. But especially interested in love Affairs…

Soul conjugal bed

Recently deceased American occultist and clairvoyant D. Gabrilovich believed that the bed of the lovers during the time of conception are returning souls of the deceased relatives, and they decide which will be the soul of the child.

Around that same religious teachings say some of the people of Polynesia and Indochina. In particular, in Polynesia believe that only from deceased family members depends, will lead this marital closeness to the birth of an heir or not. Therefore, the couples try to appease the souls of the ancestors of the various offerings which are laid out next to his bed.

The birth of a child is not just the fusion of male and female cells, but also for assimilation of the soul in a new body. During intercourse opens a channel through which the soul or an invisible ethereal essence, is a fetus Continue reading

Best books on parenting

Unfortunately, the school did not learn how to raise children. Meanwhile, as soon as the family has a child, the newly minted moms and dads immediately raises a million questions. And the older the child becomes, the more questions from parents. Someone prefers himself to find answers, and someone listens to the advice of psychologists, buy specialized books and magazines.

Conscious parents of today it is difficult to Orient in a huge selection of benefits for the upbringing and development of the child. “Most” decided to come to the rescue and picked five books that are definitely worth reading every mother.

1) “to Communicate with the child. How?” Julia Gippenreiter

Famous benefit of this child psychologist was first published 15 years ago, and since then it remains a bestseller. At the request of readers in 2008 was the second book – “we Continue to communicate with the child. So?”.

Simultaneously first drew the attention of Russian parents on what they say with their children. She’s not accusing, just shows how really perceived by our habitual words. And when you start to see yourself from the side, ashamed. “Look, look at you!”, “Now for the lessons, and that I have not seen!”, “Oh you didn’t!”, “Don’t be a nurse”, “Think about it, is that a problem!”, – it turns Continue reading

A man becomes a father
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What to do with the child in the country
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How to love a difficult teenager
  Parenting teenagers is not an easy task. After all, most of the time they are influenced by other people: teachers, friends and acquaintances, just their peers. Many parents feel…

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