Abstraction year-old kid with time become real images: lines, dots, dashes, he goes to the spirals and circles, finally, to three years the object of close attention and study is becoming.
Three year olds often paint people in the form of “bubbles” with the legs, where the head and body United in one oval. To four years the little artist depicts the figures of people more than proportionally: in the form of two ovals with handles and legs like sticks. In figures five-year olds appear head, eyes, torso, arms, legs. In the six years to the above mentioned items are added nose, mouth, fingers – their number does not matter. To seven years of not overlooked such details of human image like neck, hair (or hat), clothing (often in schematic form), and the hands and feet are depicted by double lines.
So, from what positions can analyze a picture of your kid?
The colors that he chooses
The prevalence of any color in pictures can speak not only about the features of character, his temperament, but also about what the child needs, fears and dreams.
Yellow – positive emotions, spontaneity, curiosity, optimism. Children who choose this color – creative nature, are optimists, Continue reading
The girl should be quiet, economical and accurate, its merits – a docile and gentle nature, and the main objective – to marry well, become a model housewife and have children. And this is not a description of the methods of education of the Middle ages – this Patriarchal realities of modern Ukraine, where the girls forget to tell that they’re individuals and can build your life, career and family, not being dependent on men. Therapist of Leonid Semakov believes that in this way one of the girls raise free staff.
The middle ages in 2012
When I was preparing for an interview on this topic, to be honest, I doubt that the problem of educating girls in a Patriarchal style now just as relevant as, for example, 30 years ago. But was unpleasantly surprised to find many tips for raising girls frankly humiliating display. For example, how about this: “Educating a girl can do without such approvals as “good”, “well done”, “clever”. Such words of encouragement of a girl forced to be like the boy and strive to achieve success, to obtain the approval. But this will not make her happy. Many women incorrectly educated, strive for achievement, a career, Continue reading
In psychology, there is such a cornerstone, this symbol of faith, if you will. It can be expressed in one popular phrase: “we All come from childhood”. So. Parents and children, psychology of relationships of children and parents.
What does it mean this expression: “we All come from childhood” It means that the psychology of all areas and schools believes that childhood is the most important time, when the personality is formed. With all its inclinations, and (unfortunately) with all its neuroses and problems of an adult.
Parents are the adults, which is exhausted for the little man the whole universe, a model of the universe. In the early years the child is isolated from most of the experience, however, most of the experience of being he develops on this “model”.
And here’s enforced isolation takes the child for years. As You can probably guess that in early childhood one year is a lifetime. So imagine that years to five to seven a child lives in a special universe where the gods and the most intelligent and fair creatures are his parents. And more around the little man is nothing.
So if a child grows up with the belief “This world is unfair”, then you need to contact him early OPITO parents may have been Continue reading