Best books on parenting

Unfortunately, the school did not learn how to raise children. Meanwhile, as soon as the family has a child, the newly minted moms and dads immediately raises a million questions. And the older the child becomes, the more questions from parents. Someone prefers himself to find answers, and someone listens to the advice of psychologists, buy specialized books and magazines.

Conscious parents of today it is difficult to Orient in a huge selection of benefits for the upbringing and development of the child. “Most” decided to come to the rescue and picked five books that are definitely worth reading every mother.

1) “to Communicate with the child. How?” Julia Gippenreiter

Famous benefit of this child psychologist was first published 15 years ago, and since then it remains a bestseller. At the request of readers in 2008 was the second book – “we Continue to communicate with the child. So?”.

Simultaneously first drew the attention of Russian parents on what they say with their children. She’s not accusing, just shows how really perceived by our habitual words. And when you start to see yourself from the side, ashamed. “Look, look at you!”, “Now for the lessons, and that I have not seen!”, “Oh you didn’t!”, “Don’t be a nurse”, “Think about it, is that a problem!”, – it turns out that all of these phrases that we say “on the machine”, every day humiliate the dignity of the child, make him doubt his abilities and devalue his feelings.

But I can fix that if you start changing your speech habits, and simultaneously illustrative examples shows how to do it. This book teaches how to properly raise a child and help him to Express his feelings. And to talk about their own emotions so that the child can hear us.

“You can condemn the actions of the child, but not his feelings, no matter how unwanted or “inadmissible” they were not. Once they come from, so it is reasonable”.

2) “How to really love children,” Ross Kembla

The work of the psychologist Ross Kembla were translated into Russian language in 1992, but as these ideas will never lose its relevance. His book tells of the love – sincere, unconditional, can work wonders. Love is considered as a Foundation upon which to build a reliable relationship with the child, without which it is impossible to penetrate into his soul and understand how to deal with disobedience or emotional problems.

“If we love the child conditionally writes CAMPBEL, depending on his progress and behavior, he inevitably loses confidence, becomes anxious and introverted”. The book describes in detail how to show your child unconditional love through physical contact and eye contact, through attention and proper discipline.

“Considering how little time is actually always busy adults can give to their children, all parents it is extremely important to know how to actually love their children and be able to Express that love.”

3) “Help me to do it myself” Maria Montessori

Italian psychologist and humanist Maria Montessori gained worldwide fame for its unique teaching method, techniques, how to raise children and education of preschool children. Its main idea is that adults should not interfere in children’s games and activities, instead giving the child full freedom of expression and action. Montessori offers primarily to observe the child engaged in some business. Parents have to surround your child be more varied games, show him what you can do with the proposed material – and, handing the initiative to the baby, to move into the shade.

Surprisingly, this approach to education, Montessori experience, not only led to rapid intellectual progress, but also made the children organized and disciplined. The book presents articles Montessori and her pupils and followers, giving specific tips and recommendations for classes with kids.

“We can’t foresee all the consequences of muting direct, spontaneous activity of the child at the time, only when he begins to show activity. Maybe we drowned life itself”.

4) “When your child drives you crazy” EDA Le Shan

Classic practical pedagogy, American psychologist EDA Le Shan analyzes a typical conflict situation, familiar to every family, helping parents to understand the causes of negative behavior of their child and provides practical guidance on parenting. Her book breathes such wisdom and kindness that it wants to quote “from” and “to”. Le Shan looks at different family situation through the eyes of a child and ruthlessly exposes many of the stamps in the behavior of parents when seeking to look good in the eyes of others, we are trying to do with your child is not a strong personality, and a decent and well-mannered member of the team. It also clearly shows how behavior in kids and adolescents reflects the fears of parents, and teaches you what to do with it.

“When our children behave in exactly the same way we behaved at their age, it’s driving us crazy”.

5) “How to raise a happy child” by Jean Liedloff

American psychotherapist Jean Liedloff spent two and a half years in the tribes of South American Indians, studying the relationship between adults and children, preserving the natural harmony. And came to the conclusion that if you communicate with children as it did for millennia, our ancestors, and to listen to their own intuition, then children will grow up calm and happy.

Your observations and conclusions she describes in her book is unexpected and full of stunning facts. Liedloff recalls that the ability to raise children is inherent in us by nature. However, modern parents used to shift the responsibility on others – doctors, educators, school teachers. But only listening to their own parental instincts, we will be able to understand what our children need, and grow them happy, how to raise children .

“Depriving the child of necessary experience, we are setting him up for a split personality: one half lives in the outside world, and the other is busy resolving internal conflicts. Instead, we can help the child grow into a whole person, always ready to solve problems.”

The best magazines for parents

“Mom, it’s me”. The journal is intended for young mothers, and also for those who will soon move them to become. With this maternity benefit you can you sure that you’re doing it right. In the magazine a lot of practical information concerning the health and development of baby and child psychology and child-rearing. It is noteworthy that the authors of the articles are well – known and competent professionals (doctors, psychologists, teachers).

“Waiting for baby”. Great magazine for those who are going to become a mother. How to get pregnant? Where to pregnancy? Can I play sports? What if the expectant mother has a sore back? To these and other questions are answered by renowned experts, doctors, psychologists and experienced moms.

“Good mother”. A wonderful resource for every day. On questions of readers meet doctors, psychologists and teachers.

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